Author Archives: Mike Pilinski

About Mike Pilinski

I'm Mike Pilinski and I'd like to welcome you to The High Status Male. You'll see that my books and audio programs are all about Overcoming Shyness... about teaching yourself how to remain cool and calm in the face of social and romantic pressure, and generally just dealing with an over-sized fear of being rejected when trying to meet women. These were the problems that haunted me when I was growing up... when I was struggling to become "normal" and to have a real social life. So I tried to share the insights and solutions that I developed over the years to eliminate these types of fear-centered problems in myself... problems that shy guys like us have had to deal with in desperate, embarrassed silence for too long. I hope you find my ideas to be the answer that you've been looking for.

Some Essential Dating Advice for Men

Posted by Mike Pilinski

[Translate] If you’re a single guy still looking for your dream POA (piece of ass), I’m sure you’ve absorbed lots of advice on how best to meet and date women by now. A lot of it is “common sensical” as … Read more

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How to be a nice guy and still get laid

Posted by Mike Pilinski

[Translate] I suppose I could have titled this article “Why Do Women Show Absolutely No Romantic Interest In A Nice Guy (Like Me) Even Though They All Claim To Want To Meet A Nice Guy (Like Me)?”

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You Became a Social Coward by Accident

Posted by Mike Pilinski

[Translate] I’ll bet the following statement is true for any guy reading this who doesn’t do well with the ladies: You don’t really understand what it is you’re doing WRONG that makes you so unattractive to women… for the *exact … Read more

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When it comes to the Dating Game, are you Playing with Scared Money?

Posted by Mike Pilinski

[Translate] I have a friend who’s a big time gambler — horses and sports book mostly, but he’ll take a flyer out to a casino and burn up a crap table once in a while. His playful lifestyle has given … Read more

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Meeting Women Takes Awareness and Preparation

Posted by Mike Pilinski

[Translate] Want to know a pivotal secret of the mating & dating game? It’s that women plan, practice and prepare for this contest from a very young age, and (surprise!) are flat-out *contemptuous* of those men who refuse to play … Read more

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Triggering Automatic Female Lust

Posted by Mike Pilinski

[Translate] Contrary to what you see every week on ‘Sex and the City’, women are the complete opposite of men in that, the more *anonymous* the sexual encounter, the LESS gratifying they find it to be. Unlike the fictional uber-slut … Read more

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Eight Characteristics that Give a Man the Absolute Best Chance to Score With Women

Posted by Mike Pilinski

[Translate] For a man, successfully meeting women is all about how you ACT. Period. Sure, you have to look halfway decent in the way you dress, stay groomed and not stink like the chunk of two month old polish sausage … Read more

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When Trying to Pick up Women, Always Work Alone

Posted by Mike Pilinski

[Translate] Maybe there’s something to be said for going out with your buddies to work the bars and pick up women, but notice how rarely it ever actually seems to succeed? Girls go to the clubs in groups for safety … Read more

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