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The fact is… just like women, all men are different and all men appreciate different things in the bedroom. I’m often AMAZED by what some men want in bed…

And so, it’s fair to say that there is an exception to every one of the rules I’m going to outline below… but if I were you I wouldn’t bet against a single one of them.

If you want a fantastic, fully satisfying, and long-lasting sexual relationship that supports a strong and healthy intimate relationship, then you would do very well to take the following 10 suggestions very seriously. 

Because as amazing as it may sound, most women make every single one of these mistakes… and learning how to avoid even a few of them will really set you apart in the mind of any man…

1. Buying into the popular hype that being a great lover means you have to be a “bad girl”

“When I’m good, I’m very good… but when I’m bad, I’m better.”

I’m guessing that even before Mae West made that line famous, both men and women had a fascination with the sexually forward “bad girl” for thousands of years.
And in popular culture, characters like “Samantha” from Sex In The City and the intense fascination with celebrities like Paris Hilton and Pamela Anderson show that the icon of the “bad girl” isn’t going anywhere any time soon.

And it doesn’t take a scientific study to notice that men seem to respond very strongly to these women. And, of course, we all worry about the fact that in our modern media- frenzied culture, our teen and even pre-teen girls have noticed that fact too.

But of course, you’re not a teenager. So you should know better.

Yes, for most men there is a fascination with women who are hyper-sexual and use their sexuality to get attention.

And if you’ve got some “bad girl” in you, then good news: your man will enjoy that side of you when you let her out…

But if that’s your only trick, prepare for a life without any sexual depth and relationships without intimacy.

Because while men are often sexually drawn to this type of woman, the actual sex turns out to be more about the “bragging rights” than pleasure.

In fact, we all know a woman like this, who constantly talks about sex and loves to say and do shocking things… and who seems to need an endless stream of attention to satisfy her
ego. And while being around someone who has so much persona and so little authenticity can sometimes be fun… we usually become aware of the deep insecurity that drives this kind of mask.

Eventually it becomes both boring and sad.

Part of the pleasure of being human is that we don’t have to be the same person all of the
time, and knowing how to use a little “bad girl” to spice up your life is great, as long as you don’t let the attention cut you off from a more authentic experience of love and life.

2. Conforming to the (double) standard

We’ve come a long way, but unfortunately the double standard is alive and well in virtually all modern cultures.

Most men I’ve talked to still think that if a woman has sex with him on the first date, then she probably did the same on all of her other first dates, and that she is therefore “not relationship material.” (And never mind that he just had sex on his first date too).

So what can a woman do?

If she feels sexually drawn to a man, does she have to “hold out” in order to avoid getting labeled?

On the other hand, is there such a thing as holding out too long? What if he gets frustrated and finds himself a more willing partner?

The truth is, there are plenty of very smart and savvy women who get themselves into
emotionally difficult situations from trying to figure this out and “playing the game” from either end…

There are women who try to gain “power” in their relationships by holding out longer than what feels comfortable…

And there are women on the other side who fear losing a man if they don’t “put out” and use sex to try to get emotional commitment.

Both of these strategies almost always fail in the end. The only way to win this game is to
not play.

You can’t GET anything by either withholding or giving sex. The only thing sex can get you is sex. And trying to figure out how to trade it for love or attention is almost always a disaster.

So what should you do?

Commit yourself to working as hard as you can to remain fearlessly authentic to your personal truth and ethics, no matter what they may be.

You should not have sex with a man either a moment before or a moment after you are fully emotionally ready to do so.

If that means that you lose a man because he felt like it was “too soon” or “too slow” then you just saved yourself a lot of heart-ache in getting involved with a man who either can’t see or can’t appreciate true authenticity.

3. Making YOUR Pleasure HIS Responsibility

It’s easy to blame your lover if the sex isn’t what you wished it was. Especially if it doesn’t measure up to another man from your past.

Part of this is because we all carry certain imprinting – from early sexual fantasies, something we saw or overheard, or from experience – and we develop preferences for the way we think sex SHOULD be based on that past imprinting.

Obviously we can’t expect our lover to have the same imprinting that we do, and so there’s a good chance that he’s got a different idea about what great sex ought to look like.

Another common situation is that a couple gets stuck in a rut and they both wish things were different, but neither of them are willing to take responsibility for making changes. It’s easy to see that HE just does the same thing every time…

But for some reason it’s just harder to notice that YOU might be doing the same thing every time too.

And finally, many women believe that if they are not having orgasms during sex that it must be their partner’s fault.

It becomes “our” problem, and he gets sucked into feeling inadequate, or else she just keeps it to herself, either faking it or not, but secretly holding resentment.

4. Making your Pleasure YOUR Responsibility

…And of course there are just as many women, if not more, who believe that if they are not having orgasms or if they don’t enjoy sex that is their own fault.

Many women go around feeling humiliated or even “broken” because they either can’t have an orgasm, or because they can’t have orgasms during intercourse.

With every other issue of the women’s magazines telling you that you’re entitled to “the big O” and that if you’re not getting it then you are missing out on what it means to be a fully actualized woman, it’s easy to start to feel like you’re a below average human if you’re not screaming into your pillow for at least an hour a day.

And there are just as many women who walk around believing that they “just have a low sex drive,” or they “just don’t enjoy sex,” and that’s just the way it is.
The fact is, all women are capable of orgasm, because every woman has the anatomy and the circuitry for orgasm.

And yes, having orgasms, both clitoral and vaginal, is something that can be learned, and powerfully intensified with the right information.

Getting past “fault” and the silly idea that sex is “supposed” to be a certain way is the essential beginning for any woman who knows that she could be getting more out of sex.

5. Thinking that foreplay begins in the bedroom

Men and women are equally guilty of this one, and both men and women suffer because of it.

I am constantly hearing from women that say “my husband isn’t attracted to me anymore,” or “his sex drive has disappeared,” and it almost always has nothing to do with what’s going on between the sheets, but rather what’s going on during the day.

While we like to think that men are all about the physical and that women are the ones with all of the emotion, it’s been my observation time and again that if a couple hasn’t been getting along well during the day, that the man is often the one who becomes disinterested in sex in the evening.

For women, returning to the intimacy of touch is often a way to heal wounds carelessly inflicted during the day. But frequently for men, getting intimate when they are feeling frustrated and unheard is just out of the question.

Being in the right emotional frame of mind for love making is something that usually doesn’t “just happen” in the bedroom.

It’s something that happens through intention and care, and in every interaction throughout the day.

6. Being Negative (Or Even Ashamed) Of Your Body

In case you were wondering if these are in order of importance… they’re not. If they were, this would surely have to be either the first or second of the big mistakes that women make in the bedroom.

And it’s the one that seems hardest to avoid for most women.
There was a time when the kind of female beauty that we elevate to celebrity status would have been something you might see only a few times in a lifetime.

Humans evolved in bands of 100-150 individuals, and encounters with other tribes was not overly common. If you take a random 100 people from the street, that might be what your tribe looked like, and all the people you’d ever see.

Today however we live in a global community, and those chosen for jobs as the models for magazines and catalogs and to appear in television and movies are a tiny handful of all of the humans alive on the planet. They are literally the 1 in 100 million.

But that’s just the beginning, because these humans of rare beauty are then put into the hands of the best makeup artists, they are carefully lit by the most masterful photographers, and then, finally, they are digitally enhanced by another set of artists who perfect even the tiniest flaws.

But here’s the really scary part:

Because we live in such a media saturated world, on any given day you probably see MORE of those people than you do REAL people.

So if you’ve got 20 people in your office, saw 8 people at the coffee shop, rode public transit and saw another 30 people, that’s maybe 60 real people for the day…

But if, in the same day, you watched 2 hours of television and skimmed a magazine, you probably saw 300 impossibly beautiful people, leading you to believe that the average human looks something like a Victoria’s Secret model.

And if you’ve looked in the mirror lately, you are probably aware of a certain disconnect between the way you look and the way that they look. And it is probably a fact that BOTHERS you.

What parts of your body are you afraid to show off? Where are you being critical and judgmental about your SELF?

So, like I said, it’s not your fault…

But it IS your responsibility. Nobody can tell you how to feel about yourself but you. And I could give you at least 100 good reasons why you ought to not only make peace with your physical appearance, but even learn to cherish the body you’ve been given…

But since I write about sex, I’ll give you just 1 reason:

Of the thousands of men that I’ve surveyed, over 90% of them rated your self-image in
the top 3 or 4 most important factors to being “good in bed”.

In fact, in answer to the question, “what turns you on,” no answer got a higher average response from men than a woman with a “positive body image” who is “comfortable
with her body and her sexuality.”

That’s why I am committed to making sure that Revolutionary Sex For Women is filled with the essential tools you need for learning to unwire the dissatisfaction that most women feel about their physical appearance.
This goes further than just being willing to “have sex with the lights on.”

When you are fully confident with your body, it is something that men find nearly irresistible.

7. Telling Him What He’s Doing Wrong

This is a difficult one because, first of all, a lot of men will tell you that they WISH women would tell them what they want in the bedroom.

Plus… If you can’t tell him how to do what you want him to do, how are you ever going to get your needs met?

But the fact remains, telling a man what he’s doing wrong in the bedroom is an almost certain recipe for unleashing all of his insecurities and ending up with a man who is defensive, resentful, or worse, a bad case of performance anxiety.

Sorry ladies, we lads like to think we are big and tough, but the fact is, most of us are quite weak when it comes to critique of our sexual skills.

Tell a man what you want him to do in the bedroom and you might get an appreciative partner who gives you exactly what you asked for…

But more likely you’ll end up with one or more of the following male reactions:

- How does she know about that? She must sleep around a lot!

- She’s more experienced than me, I must look like a fool

- What’s wrong, I’m not good enough for you?! Sorry I can’t be as hot as your last lover! It’s not all about YOU you know! In fact, let me itemize all of the ways in which YOU don’t measure up to MY standards…!

The good news:

There are plenty of ways to get exactly what you want in the bedroom. You’ve just got to know the right way to do it so that he thinks it was HIS idea.

In other words…

You’re in the right place. And I’m going to tell you exactly how to do it.

8. Trying to substitute “Techniques” for Passion

Imagine that you are in bed with a man who read about some technique that is sure to give you the orgasm of your life, and he proceeds to get to work on your like a project.

He’s furiously working his fingers or tongue and restlessly checking now and then to see if it’s working yet. He’s
completely absorbed in his eager task of trying really hard to please you, and demonstrate to you what an expert he is in the bedroom.

In fact, as he continues to saw away he may become increasingly worried if his plan is not working the way the magazine article he read
assured him it would.

Finally he asks that dreaded question, “what’s wrong?”

Ug.

Almost every woman I talk to can relate to this one. So it’s a bit shocking that women do EXACTLY THE SAME THING.
And for men it is received in exactly the same way.

Sure, it can be fun if you decide to spice things up for us with a new technique you just read in “Cosmo”…

But it could also, just as easily become a huge turn-off to be with a woman who is trying so hard to make
something “work”. And nothing is more awkward than the woman who is full of fake bravado because she thinks her secret oral technique is going to make us fall down at her feet and worship her skills.

And if you find that you’re working really hard to get something to work and your lover begins to lose his erection, please save yourself and him
the embarrassment of asking, “what’s wrong?”
Nobody wants to be treated like a project. And men can tell just as well as women can when our partner is not engaged in what we are supposed to be doing TOGETHER.

There is simply no substitute for authentic passion.

If your attraction isn’t real, if you are trying hard to impress, instead of just allowing yourself to get lost in the fun; if you are not really in the mood but doing it for the sake of peace and harmony in the relationship…

Then you really need to rethink why you are doing it.

Unfortunately, for many women, authentic passion doesn’t come naturally.

Society, upbringing, and often religious background, and sometimes even sexual abuse from the distant past, often conspire to make women feel awkward about what ought to be natural, easy, and fun.

Getting in tune with what is essential and honest about your sexuality is one of the most fundamentally important things a woman can learn.

9. Killing His Soul

Okay, I know it sounds obvious that killing his soul would be bad…

And yet so many women seem to make this mistake.

Here’s the deal… men are men. And we are not exactly like women.

I know there is this popular idea that men and women are equal… but that turns out to be just wrong.

Equal is a mathematical term meaning identical.

Anyone with a pair of eyes can see that men and women are not identical… in fact, it’s obvious even if you are blind.

There is another mathematical term, “equivalent,” which means “of equal VALUE.”

And men and women are indeed equivalent. But trying to figure out how to make them the SAME causes a lot of problems in our society.

What I mean by “killing his soul” comes down to MAKING HIM WRONG for things he likes because he’s a man.

There are certain things that men want and need sexually and in our relationships that might not make sense to a woman.

There’s nothing wrong with it not making sense. The only time the problem comes in is when you make us “wrong” for it.

Once you’ve made a man feel like he’s wrong for just acting like a man or having masculine desires, you run the risk of having him censor important parts of himself around you. He feels like you don’t accept him for who he truly is…

And one of the casualties of making him feel like his masculinity is unacceptable to you is often his sexual passion.

Couples that celebrate their differences instead of trying to conform to each other are the ones that build relationships of lasting passion.

10. Getting Help In The Wrong Places

When I wrote the men’s version of this report, mistake #10 was “Not Getting Help.”

For men, asking for advice about sex is often embarrassing or emasculating.

But women, by and large, love to talk about sex and they love to offer advice and ideas of how sex ought to be.

Women think that sex ought to look like it does in romantic movies, or they learn about what men want from magazine articles, and they are endlessly fascinated by “experts” talking about relationships.

In my experience it appears that men who write articles about sex frequently talk about what they themselves like.

Women who write these articles talk about what their current lover likes.

And experts seem to think that relationships boil down to the things that are discussed in couples therapy, and fill discussions of sexuality with mature and sterile discussions of such trivia as “using fantasy to spice things up at home.”

Nothing wrong with that… but to think that these simple games can somehow substitute for learning how to be authentically sexually aware is simply never going to lead to a powerful, deeply intimate, and passionate sexual relationship.

Worse still, so many younger women and couples are looking at the endless stream of pornography that crowds the Internet and feeling like they should be doing all of the strange things that they are seeing.

This leaves a lot of women feeling powerless, frustrated, and confused. What if you really don’t WANT to do what every actress does in pornography?

The good news is that it turns out that you don’t have to.

The things you need to learn to completely blow a man’s mind in the bedroom turn out to be surprisingly simple.

The fact is, most men don’t even know the kind of sexual pleasure that their bodies are capable of, and many men don’t realize how the right woman can unlock their desire for lasting passion.

If you’d like to learn more about how to become the “right woman,” who knows how to get and give all the things you want in the bedroom, and who knows how to create deep intimacy, wild passion, and magical experiences from love making…

Then Revolutionary Sex For Women is for you

The unfortunate truth for us men is that women are all different – Especially when it comes to sex and how to orgasm. What works on one, doesn’t necessarily work on another, which I suppose is part of their plan to make sure we’ll never really figure them out.

Some women know how to orgasm and can come easily with just about any partner. A woman like this really knows her own body and her secret spots, she knows what works, and she can shift her hips a little here or there and pretty much take care of her own pleasure.

But other women have a very hard time EVER reaching orgasm. In fact, recent studies I’ve read say that 1 in 7 women will never know how to orgasm in her life. They won’t know what is orgasm and feels like. And many, many others can’t have orgasm during sex without a vibrator, or can’t have orgasm from intercourse, or take a very, very long time to orgasm, or just can’t have orgasm when YOU are in the room. This last one is maddeningly common.

There are many women who simply can’t have orgasm when they are not alone because they just become too self conscious.

But here is another cold, hard truth about orgasm and secret spots(don’t keep reading if you were hoping I’d only say nice to things to you, because this next one can hurt)

Many, if not most of the women that I’ve interviewed in my research say that they can’t have orgasm with MOST men, but with other men they can come fairly easily.

Usually, they say, they can tell about 60 seconds into sex whether or not you’ll be able to do the trick for her and find her secret spots, and if they realize that you can’t, then no matter how long or how hard you try, she’s just waiting for you to finish up because she is never going to get there.

And do you think that if a woman you are with is having this experience, and she knows she’s not going to have orgasm, that she’s going to TELL you? Is she going to say: “You know Billy, some guys can do it for me, but unfortunately, no matter how long we go at this, you’re not going to be one of them“?

Let me ask you this, if the situation were reversed, would YOU tell HER? Of course not. In fact, most of the time she’ll just “fake it“, pretend to have orgasm, to save your ego and to save herself from having to deal with your insecurities. There is nothing women hate more than, “Did you come yet?”

So let’s talk about how you can make sure that you are never that guy who can’t give her the best orgasm. I’ll give you the big secret right up front: For women, it’s not just WHERE you touch them that makes it work. It’s much more about HOW you touch her and WHO it is that is touching her. So let’s start with the raw basics of secret spots.

WHERE are the best secret spots to stimulate a woman to give her the “Big O“.

If you guessed the clitoris and the g spot, then you get a gold star and you can take a seat at the front of the class.

If you said that you know about a secret spot that is deep inside of her, about 4 inches past the g spot, right where the top wall of the vagina meets the cervix, then you get to move up to the honors class.

It’s called the “anterior fornix“, or the top of the “para-cervical ring“… but she probably just calls it, “Oh my God!”

But why limit yourself to just her vaginal area? Let’s find all her secret spots!

Women can have orgasm from trigger points all over their bodies. The easiest one is the nipples, and all women can learn how to orgasm by nipple stimulation alone. Yes, all women can LEARN to do it!

Where else?

Women can be taught to have orgasm from the nape of the neck, the ear lobes, the insides of the elbows and knees, and the bottoms of the feet. In fact, there is probably not a single square inch on a woman’s body that can’t be considered an erogenous zone (though, I admit, I have never heard of a woman ever having a nose-gasm, but I’ll bet it’s possible). There are secret spots everywhere!

Now if you’ve ever given a woman a foot rub and she DIDN’T have orgasm, then you can probably guess that HOW you touch is her actually far more important than the where.

Now I don’t want to get you upset with me, but I’m afraid I can’t reveal to you exactly how this “how to touch her” works…

And that’s because, like I said before, all women are different. But I can give you some very good guidelines that will help you figure out exactly how to touch the particular woman that you are with and give her the best orgasm.

The first thing you are going to have to do when touching her secret spots is take the time to build excitement. So here is a big tip:

As it turns out, a lot of the “secret spots” on a woman’s body are just ticklish or just plain annoying when she’s not aroused., but those same places on her body, when she’s deeply turned on, can work like magic to quickly bring her to an earth-shaking, screaming orgasm.

So if you can figure out where she is ticklish, you can really surprise her later that night when she is super-aroused and you very gently begin running your tongue along her ticklish spot.

Of course building arousal and creating a mental and emotional state of excitement for her are entire schools of science in themselves, and I’ll have to leave that for a future article.

The second important part of how to touch her is to learn how to “pay attention” and tune in to her body.

When you learn how to become “present” in the moment with a woman and really tune in to her body, her breath, her muscle tension, her sounds and smells, then you become aware of exactly what secrets spots are working and where she likes to be touched.

Not to cop out, but like creating a arousal and excitement, this paying attention is an entire science and much more than I can cover here, so moving along.

Finally, you need to have a sense of rhythm. You can build a lot of excitement and give her endless sensual pleasure just by tuning in and touching her in the places on her body that I listed above.

But to take her past sensual pleasure and give her the best orgasm from this touching, you need to find the rhythm that works, and then STAY with that rhythm.

So many men completely miss this essential part of female orgasmic response (which is unbelievably frustrating to so many women). And even men who do have a sense of rhythm have a bad habit of trying to “sprint to the finish“. That is, when they feel a woman is getting close to a screaming orgasm, they start to speed up and increase the intensity. And by doing this, they stop doing what was working.

Most of the time, the woman that they are with is not even aware of what went wrong. From her perspective, she was getting close to orgasm , she was almost reaching orgasm, the intensity was building… and… then it just sort of fizzled out (just as the guy she was with seemed to be really getting into it too).

A huge number of couples never get past this point, they never decode what is going wrong and why she can’t orgasm.

I strongly recommend you try these simple ideas on secret spots with the woman in your life TONIGHT. I think you’ll be surprised by how instantly powerful using these tips can be.

When you’re ready to take it to the next level… (and, of course, there is ALWAYS a “next level“) you can find a lot more tips and techniques for becoming the man that blows her mind between the sheets by signing up for The Allman Report, my FREE, online newsletter.

Introductions—sticking out one’s hand and looking another person in the eye—can be terrifying. The brain locks up as you scramble to think of something relevant to say. You fall apart as soon as you’re asked what you do for a living. You stammer. The heat rises in your face and under your arms. You’re suddenly incapable of forming a grammatical sentence. You think to yourself, “Why would anyone care about me? I’m really not that interesting!”

Fear not. Many shy people have succeeded in meeting new people and forming lasting, happy relationships. With a little practice, you can too. Here are some tips for taming your social terror.

1. Prepare a pitch. The question, “So, Sally, what do you do for a living?” is bound to come up, so have a ready answer. No need to brag about capturing the company Tidy Break room Award; just state clearly what you do for a living and don’t apologize for it!

2. Ask questions. People love to talk about themselves (okay, except for people like you), so ask questions. Come up with a list before you leave the house, i.e., How did you get into that line of work? Where did you go to school? Have you seen the new Brad Pitt movie? And so on.

3. When you fumble, turn the subject to the other person. Whenever you find yourself longing to throw a blanket over your head and crawl off, try saying something like “And what about you?”

4. Listen to what the other person is saying! This is important. Instead of fretting about what you’ll say next, still the wheels of your mind and listen. If a man tells you about his weekend on the golf course, and you know absolutely nothing about golf, just ask him what he likes about it, how he got into it, etc.

5. Smile. People respond well to people who smile. No need to grin like an idiot, but a disarming smile will get ‘em every time. Smiling conveys friendliness and approachability. Show teeth whenever possible. Avoid looking like a figure at a wax museum by practicing in a mirror before you leave the house.

6. Breathe. Whenever you feel your heart racing, breathe deeply and slowly. If you really start to feel uncomfortable (your face has become so hot you could use it for a wok), excuse yourself and go to the restroom.

7. Compliment the other person. Sincerity is key, so find something you like and mention it. You may be freaked out by the idea of complimenting a man on his soulful eyes, so mention his watch, suit, tie, or even his shoes. No need to go overboard: “Nice shoes,” will do it.

8. Stay on top of current events. You don’t necessarily want to bring up your stand on the latest in politics during a first meeting, but be able to discuss less controversial issues intelligently.

9. Remember the weather! Some people have the “gift of gab,” the ability to make strangers feel like they’ve known them forever. They are fearless about talking about the weather, gas prices, whatever. Shy people worry that talking about mundane things will make them appear stupid. But seemingly dull subjects like the weather affect everybody. People relate to them.

10. Hold your head up. It’s the simplest, most effective way to look confident. Good posture, coupled with that fabulous smile of yours, gives you a “winner’s vibe.” You’re guaranteed to be a hit!

Be warned: These tips will not help you if you don’t leave the house. It’s just too easy to watch a Friends rerun for the umpteenth time instead of meeting people, but I promise you that Prince Charming is never going to climb through your bedroom window.

Talking to strangers can be uncomfortable, but with practice it will surely get easier. If you have a bad night, congratulate yourself for making the effort. When you have a good night, understand that you earned it. Know that countless wonderful nights are on their way to you.

1 ) Don’t Try To Act Like A Fake On The First Date

A woman often makes a far more profound emotional investment into a relationship than a man does. So for her, TRUST is an immensely important issue. Dating is not just a convenient way to get her rocks off, it’s a case study in the male psyche. Can she trust you to ever be a good future father? Don’t laugh, unless she’s middle-aged and well beyond the kids & husband phase of her life, this “mating calculus” is ALWAYS running somewhere in the back of her mind.

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Acting like a phoney with an obviously fake ‘come-on’ personality only demonstrates how easily you are willing to embrace deception in order to get something you want. To any woman other than the sad exception of the chick who’s looking for another loser for her next AA reclamation project (maybe 10% to 15% of the female population), you are TOTAL POISON. A potential cheater and heartbreaker just waiting for his next victim to arrive. She may dump you right away, OR depending on the depth of her general bitterness towards men, keep you around to engage in a little recreational tease and torturing if she’s got a vendetta to settle with a guy like you. Beware!

2 ) Create New Memories Instead Of Swapping Them

Here’s the very best dating advice I can ever give anyone: in order to make any date memorable and fun, spend 90% of your activities in the present moment.

It’s easy to get caught up in the “talking trap” on a date – where the two of you sit around and get lost in deeper and deeper conversation. These ‘chatting dates’ can slip out of control and become subtle passion-killers though, especially if you’re not careful to keep the big picture in focus. Before you know it, you’re spilling your guts about Father Hamhands from your altar boy days or waxing poetic about your hemorrhoids and how they love to swell up in the springtime. Yeesh. As Joey from the TV show Friends once scolded his buddy Chandler, “… ok, that’s TOO MUCH information!…”

For a seduction to go off like a thing of beauty, you must reveal yourself SLOWLY — bit-by-bit — as you gradually come to know her. Think of dating as an emotional veil dance… a striptease — the point of which is to make her anticipate when the next Veil of Male Mystery will come off! This is the kind of thing she’s been DREAMING about all her life. Why? Because it makes everything that’s to follow (including the sex) all that much more delicious for her.

So put ACTION ahead of endless yakking. Stay active on a date (it doesn’t have to be an extreme sport-fest or anything, just visiting a flea market will do…) so that you are BUILDING a memory with her instead of SHARING one. Focus on having experiences with her that the two of you can reminisce about some day in the future — instead of spending time caught up in a lot of drawn-out amateur psychotherapy sessions in a bar somewhere. Conversation is very important in any new relationship, and is the pathway to her eventual sexual surrender, but you must provide her with a REASON to want to know so much about you *FIRST* before opening your soul. Never forget the importance of your veil dance.

3 ) Don’t Be A Bore

A boring person is anti-charismatic — which is to say that, instead of making people feel GOOD about themselves by acting interested in them, the boring person makes us want to run away screaming from the agony of having to listen to another second of his self-absorbed droning!

The point of conversation should always be focused on drawing HER interests out instead of dwelling on your own (but don’t come across like a ruthless Nazi interrogator — go easy on the unbroken string of questions). Share a little — but keep YOUR interests lost in the background. Her response to a few casual queries about her life or current dreams holds clues to your *LifeLine*. Cling to it tightly and work on expanding its scope. Submerge your own ego for the first few dates. Don’t worry, when you finally hook her she’ll begin questioning you intently… maybe TOO intently! But that probably won’t happen until after yu’ve had sex. (Then get ready for the onslaught!)

4 ) Forget About Trying To Act “Like Yourself”

The standard dating advice of “being yourself” or “acting like yourself” (whatever the hell that means) is pure “Oprah-istic” B.S.

Learn to strike a balance between coming on like a phoney- baloney (which we talked about earlier), and seeming too safe and friendly. Seduction is a delicate bubble that can be burst with increasingly less effort as it ripens. A first date is NOT the place to remain in the role of your everyday average old sort of guy… that’s spells B-O-R-I-N-G. A spark must be present to ignite the *fires of desire* in the old primal portion of her brain.

So that means you have to be EXCITED to be out with her! When you think about it, it should be easy to get juiced up… dating someone for the very first time is not something that happens every day in anyone’s life. Face it, ordinary life sucks. Romance is a fantasy voyage, an escape from the 9 to 5 daily drudgery of work, etc. Treat this rare event for what it is… something unique, unrepeatable and potentially unforgettable. Even if she seems too cool to care, trust me… her romance motor is humming along in high gear.

5 ) Five Minutes Of Nerves Is Normal, Then Calm Down

After some initial awkwardness due to understandable jitters, you should be able to calm down and hit your stride. If you have a real problem controlling automatic body reactions to nervousness (bad sweating, stuttering, facial twitching, etc.) my best advice is to get a book on yoga and practice it WITH AN OPEN MIND. You don’t have to go nuts and join the Green Party or anything, but DO try some of the deep breathing and relaxation techniques. They really work and can give you the self-control edge you might need. This will project through in your attitude as a cool confidence that is the unmistakable sign of a High Status Male!

Learn to always keep your movements around the women you’re trying to seduce graceful and deliberate like a snake charmer. Modulate your voice in a throaty style (lowered volume) and keep the tone of your words sounding a little bit “conspiratorial” (without going overboard and making a fool of yourself). A squeaky voice spells fear and sounds adolescent, so strive to keep it in check. Be self-aware.

6 ) Obsession Is The Hallmark Of The Weak Male

Dominant males will show an interest in any attractive woman they encounter because they are highly sexually driven. But — because they have many options with females open to them — they do NOT act obsessive about any *particular* woman. So don’t be obsessed with her… just be interested. Proclaiming ridiculously inappropriate nonsense like “…I love you” or “You’re the girl I’ve been searching for my whole life…” on a first or second date is the frightening talk of the potential stalker. You become RADIOACTIVE to women once word of your engaging in this kind of bizarre behavior spreads. And it will spread… women gossip like demons. So chill the subservient grovelling and act like you’ve been down the dating & mating road a few times already.

7 ) No Matter What Happens, Assume She Likes You… and Believe It

I’m not kidding here… this is an essential Jedi mind trick that you MUST somehow learn to play on yourself. Simply ASSUME that any woman you’re working will *always* like you — and do whatever the hell it takes to sell this idea to your unconscious mind! Women can become mesmerized by men who seem to be captivated by them. But this kind of ‘vibe’ can only shine through your body language if it’s GENUINE — and for that to happen, you have to believe that she will respond favorably to you… *no matter what*.

Remember… ATTITUDE + UNCONSCIOUS BELIEFS = THE TRUTH. Your attitude is a naked expression of your unconscious beliefs about yourself. Therefore, it is interpreted BY OTHERS as revealing the absolute truth about you… whether YOU like it or not. Control the self-image that you project to the world by pushing the crappy beliefs about yourself out of your brain, and replace them with empowering ones that will advance your own personal ’cause’ for a change. Strive to deliberately manipulate this critical part of your consciousness, and watch your world change before your eyes like magic.

Before long, you’ll soon have your pick of all the best looking women in YOUR world!

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If you’ve had a couple of serious girlfriends in your life, serious enough that you stopped pretending for each other and really TALKED about what she “secretly” likes in the bedroom. Especially if you’ve had that conversation with more than one woman, then you already know, different women like REALLY, almost WEIRDLY, different things between the sheets. Like, spectacularly different, even opposite things sometimes.

Not only that, but often they like different things at different times in their life and they can change their minds insanely quickly. And not only that, but sometimes what really gets them off in bed changes depending on their mood in that MOMENT.

*sigh* …women.

And even though all of that is absolutely true, there is still ONE thing that, if you know the secret to it, will work on EVERY woman, EVERY time, no matter who she is, what stage of life, or what mood she’s in. Yep. It’s that good!

If you’ve already read my eBook, “Revolutionary Sex,” then you are smiling and nodding, because you already KNOW what the secret is, and you’ve got the very happy girl in your bed to prove it.

Have you figured out what the one thing is that “works” on all women? If you are guessing that it has something to do with being “extra large” you are so misinformed that I don’t know where to begin. You need my book very, very badly.

If you are thinking that it requires the ”endurance” of a marathon runner on steroids and the ability to “hold back” forever, you are almost as wrong-headed.

Of course, it is very important to learn the simple techniques of lasting long enough to please your woman, but also that is for YOUR pleasure, so that you can relax and really enjoy the experience together. And I talk about how to do that in my book.

But a guy can last all day long and NEVER really drive his girl crazy with pleasure if he doesn’t know what he’s doing. In fact, there are many, many girls who will tell you that they WISH the guy they were with would finish SOONER because it’s getting her nowhere except more and more frustrated as he keeps going at it.

If you’re thinking of some kind of technique or position, or something you do with your tongue or fingers, you’re still way off. And it’s not a matter of how fast, how slow, how hard, or how gentle. Nope… Because for every one of these things, you will find girls who disagree about what REALLY works for them individually.

The one thing that every woman secretly dreams of, that will drive every woman wild is a simple two-word answer. And if you can really perfect this one skill, you will become the kind of man that a woman will do almost ANYTHING to keep around.

The G spot?

No. But the G spot started me on the road to figuring it all out. I remember when I first learned how to find the G-spot on a woman. And, coincidentally, I found out about it from a book.

I was a freshman in college and, of course,I had HEARD about the legendary G-spot, but I was too embarrassed to ASK anyone where it was.

So, I went to the library. These days, of course, you can just hit the internet and go to wikipedia.org and get an instant answer complete with a diagram. So if you don’t know where it is, go check that out right now. As it turned out, the g spot worked amazingly well to launch my girlfriend at the time into the stratosphere.

But…

Weirdly and frustratingly enough- It didn’t work AT ALL on my next girlfriend. She could only have an orgasm with clitoral stimulation. In fact, when I touched her g spot, she said it was uncomfortable and felt “like a gynecologist examination.”

Little by little I learned that every woman is different and has to be touched differently. And, as I got better at finding out quickly what worked on different women, I accidentally discovered that I had stumbled upon something amazing…

The One Thing That “Works” On Every Woman. The thing that every woman wants is a guy who knows just…

this…

one…

thing…

Pay Attention.

No, I’m not saying to pay attention to what I’m about to say “Pay Attention” is the answer.

Unfortunately, while the answer is simple, it’s only two words after all, most guys will never learn to do it quite right.

You see, once I discovered that what worked on one women wouldn’t work on EVERY woman, I began to wonder if there was a way to figure out what any individual woman was into. And one of the first things I realized is that “asking her” does NOT work.

Not only is that a turn-off for many women, but, amazingly, most women don’t even KNOW what really drives them wild because most women have never been with a guy who was really amazing in bed.

So they never even realized that there are things that could take them higher than they ever dreamed of, much higher than they had ever gone through masturbation.

When you are making love to a woman, learning to pay attention to the subtle signals that her body is sending you, and UNDERSTANDING what they are saying, is the one skill that will allow you to unlock the door to every fantasy that she has ever had.

Not convinced?

Okay, well, here’s something for you to think about that will change your mind. Remember I was just talking about the g spot and how it can send some women right into orbit? Well, as it turns out, that’s true of MOST women.

But what’s really amazing is: A woman can’t reach her own g spot. That’s right. Without a partner, a woman would likely NEVER find her own g-spot.

(Sure, I know that there are “adult toys” that she can buy to get up there, but if she has never had someone else do it, it is very unlikely that she’d know what she was missing, and frankly it would just be weird and embarrassing for her to buy the thing).

Think about how DIFFERENT this is from being a man, how different from YOU. I mean, as guys, we pretty much KNOW everything that’s going to feel good on us. But women don’t.

In fact, the first time you give a woman a stacked multiple orgasm (page 104 in the book) she will probably completely freak out, because she never suspected that she was even CAPABLE of that kind of pleasure.

That’s why “paying attention” is a much bigger concept than you can imagine. Women communicate on a much more sub-text level than men.

A woman may say, “harder, harder,” but if you think that’s all she means, you are very wrong.

And, like I said, even SHE might not know what she means. That could be the moment to hold back from going harder to tease her into an even deeper state of arousal.

To understand a woman in bed you have to pay attention to what her BODY is saying. You have to learn to listen to her breathing and the tension in her muscles, you have to be able to feel and decode all of the messages that her body is sending to yours. And that is not something you can do with your brain. You can’t “figure it out.” You have to just listen. Listen with your whole body. And then, of course, you have to pay attention. In this way, you will know EXACTLY what to do, and EXACTLY how to do it, for ANY woman.

And when she finds a guy who can do that… It is as if she has found a man who can read her mind. She feels like you were actually made specially just for her. Like you are the PERFECT LOVER that she has always dreamed about.

I know that this is starting to sound complicated. But if there is a woman in your life that you want to really drive completely wild, then I can’t tell you how important it is to spend a bit of time to understand this stuff.

Because the simple truth of “pay attention“ is not so simple to explain in practice. Once you see it all in context with all of the specific techniques, it will make TOTAL SENSE. You will get that “a-ha!” moment. The moment you realize that it’s not just what you learn to DO by paying attention, but the very act of becoming totally absorbed in HER, brings you both into a state of amazing connected intimacy. This state opens her to possibilities of pleasure that can not be reached by touch alone.

I have spent years and years of my life figuring this stuff out. And figuring out how to share the information in a way that other guys could get the same results.

I’m so sure that the information in my book is absolutely the best of its kind, that I’m putting my money where my mouth is by offering a 2 month unconditional guarantee.

It’s my honest belief that this book will completely change your ability to give any woman a mind blowing experience that she will never forget. If I’m wrong, you don’t pay. Simple.

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The topic of anal pleasure is rarely openly spoken about. More than likely this is because any talk of anal pleasure tends to bring out feelings of embarrassment in most people (particularly women). Despite the hush hush on the subject, however, there is a growing interest to learn about the topic of anal pleasure. In this article I will go over various ways you can pleasure your lover anally. Both men and women can enjoy anal pleasure. You are probably aware of this but what you may not be aware of is that men and women enjoy anal pleasure for different reasons (physically speaking). Women enjoy anal pleasure because their is a wall of skin that is shared by their pussy and their rectum. Women’s sexual nerves are actually closer to this side of the wall than they are to the other side. Men enjoy anal pleasure because through their anus their prostate is stimulated.

Is Anal Sex Painful?

When you want to give your partner anal pleasure, you must remember to be very, very gentle. No matter how many times you and your partner may have tried it, you must still be gentle. If it will be the first time you and your partner will try it, then expect it to be very painful when you start. You must take your time, be slow, and gentle. It may be required that your partner may need time for you to just be still so they can adjust to the feeling of your cock inside of their anus. You can’t go in and just start pounding away, especially if you are doing it with someone that has never experienced anal sex (it is not in a porn movie). Also you don’t want to tear anything…

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Another reason you must be gentle, and very careful about what you are doing is because it is very easy to tear the skin inside of the anus. And trust me, it doesn’t feel too good to get ripped up in there!

If you are thinking about bringing up the topic of anal sex with your partner then please remember to be very sensitive, not only about how you bring the topic up, but be sensitive to your partner’s feelings as well. Your partner may have been thinking about bringing the topic up too, but they also may be one of those people who were dreading the question ever being asked. So be sensitive to their feelings. You also must be prepared to be patient. It may take them some time to warm up to the idea, and it certainly will take them time to get use to doing the actual act. You have to work your way up to going faster and deeper, you can’t start off that way. Listen to your partner, let them be your guide. Anal sex should be a pleasurable as possible for both of you.

Anal Positions

And in the third position, your partner would lay on their side. Their legs can be either spread apart as if they were taking a step forward, or they could bring their upper leg up to their chest. There are other ways they may positions their legs if they wish. They should do what ever feels comfortable for them.

Clean Anal Sex

The next topic I would like to discuss is anal hygiene and how to have clean anal sex. Of course it goes without saying that your partner’s anus should be cleaned both before and after anal sex, or anal play for that matter. If you happen to be the one to clean your female partner’s anus after you’ve had anal sex then always, always remember to wipe her front to back. This is extremely important because you could give her a yeast infection if you don’t, which would be very unpleasant for her.

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Your partner should try to have a bowel movement before you engage in anal sex/anal play. This will reduce the chances that it will turn up during your anal pleasure session. However, it is possible that it still may show up, so be prepared for that. If you’re going to stick it there then you have to expect to deal with that sort of thing at one time or another. Just deal with it as best you can. Chances are your partner would be more embarrassed and or mortified than you would be, so be sensitive to that as well.

Anal Lube

Vaseline, petrolatum, and other oil based lubricants not only make penetration easier, but can also act as an insulator of sorts against any potential “material” that might surface. Lubrication is the next important issue to discuss. When practicing anal sex you and your partner should discuss what kind, if any, of lubricant you plan to use. There are oil based lubricant out there, such as Vaseline, that you may consider using. However, also consider that latex condoms are damaged by oil based lubricants.

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There are water based lubricants to consider as well. However, sometimes these will dry out and can cause more damage than having not used any lubrication at all. Massage or baby oils would work too. Discuss which type of lubricant you think would be best with your partner. You may even try a few different kinds of lubricant out to see which one you both prefer.

Prepare for Anal Sex

When preparing to have anal sex with your partner you may consider playing around with them a little bit instead of getting right to the actual act. Take some time to build up the mood and get you both excited. Spend some time going down on, or paying attention to their genitals as well (Don’t completely ignore those!!). You also might want to prepare your partner’s anus for entry by licking it and/or fingering it. Once again, let your partner be your guide. They will tell you what feels good, what doesn’t feel good, how fast or slow to go.

If you’re going to lick their anus, my suggestion would be to start off slow and gentle. Don’t penetrate it right away. Spend some time gliding your tongue around and across the hole. This will loosen up and prepare the anus to open up. Then, gradually, you can start to penetrate the hole with your tongue. Pay attention to your partner’s actions and reactions to see what they like or don’t like on top of getting them to guide you. Or if they don’t guide you at all, this would be a good way to tell what you should and shouldn’t keep doing.

Trim Your Nails

If you plan on fingering your partner then be sure to trim down your nails. Fingernails can and will cut the inside of your partner’s anus, and that can be very painful. Also remember that your fingers are and can be rough. In fact fingers are more rough than both your penis and your tongue, so be careful. Be very careful about how you penetrate the anus with your cock too. I say this because if you do it wrong it can be a lot more painful than it would be if it were done correctly. Don’t shove the whole thing in all at once. Slide in a little bit at a time. This is also very important. It should take you a good bit of time to get the whole length of your penis inside. The actual amount of time will depend on your partner (remember let your partner be your guide?).

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Once you are completely inside you won’t be moving in and out completely right away either. It’s going to take a lot of patience. But once you have gotten to where your partner says it’s alright for you to move in and out as you please, you should both experience a great deal of pleasure. Pleasure that will be well worth all the time and effort you put in to getting to that point.

The Important Thing About Anal Sex and Anal Pleasure

I know I’ve spoken a lot about pain and the like during this article, but that’s only because the things I’ve discussed should be taken very seriously. If you and your partner take caution and do things properly then this experience should be very enjoyable for both of you. Just remember to communicate, be gentle, take things slow, and be sensitive and everything should work out well.

They have a pad at the end that vibrates, and can be put against your penis, your girlfriend’s clitoris, or a variety of other interesting places.

- The common dildo shaped vibrator is shaped somewhat like a penis, and is between seven and ten inches long. Most vibrators of this type are battery operated. The can be inserted into the vagina, or held in place to stimulate the clitoris, nipples, penis or testicles. Many dildo shaped vibrators come with sleeves that slip over the vibrator itself.

- They have many different textures and can change the thickness of the vibrator.- Some of these vibrators also have a collar that rotates, and some come with special side attachments to stimulate the anus or clitoris while being inserted inside the vagina.These can leave you with an extra hand available for other activities.

- Some vibrators also come with attachments. These attachments can cause entirely different sensations. You can find attachments that are made especially for anal penetration, or for vaginal. There are attachments with different textures for extra sensation. There are special attachments made to stimulate the prostate gland. There are even attachments made to penetrate the vagina with a little piece made to simultaneously stimulate the clit.

If the woman you’re with is uncomfortable trying toys for the first time, a vibrator is an excellent choice because she can enjoy considerable stimulation without any penetration. Also most vibrators have more than one speed, so if a higher level is too high for her, perhaps a slower one will be perfect.

If you find the noise a vibrator makes to be distracting, you can wrap the handle in a towel or blanket. As long as it is outside of the body. Be sure not to immerse a vibrator in water, and to always use lubrication to insert anything into any opening in the body.

They now make remote control vibrators that you can change the speed of without touching the actual vibrator. They even make small remote control vibrators that you can insert inside your partner or place over her clitoris by means of a special panty. With these vibrators, you can control the vibrator from across the table or across the room. You can make your partner come without even touching her. The possibility for games with these are nearly endless.

You can add new games and dimensions to your lovemaking with a vibrator, and make your masturbation a whole new experience. I recommend you try them if you’re looking for a way to put a little spice in your sex life.

Whew! Well, maybe not. It sure is tempting though — because in my unexpected career as the internet’s new “Dear Mr. Abby”, I’ve gotten some basic form of that question many times over in the past few months, and I’m getting sick of it. So in the interest of suppressing my e-mail a little bit, let me show you my theory of why it is that nice guys are scorned by women everywhere, and how to get around this social handicap without having to take night courses in “How to be a Jerk” at your local community college (although I hear they ARE a great place to meet sexy young women.. ;)

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I’m sure you know the infuriating mantra that you’ve heard time and again from women –either in person or on all these stupid afternoon talk shows: “…But Oprah, there’s no one to date out there, all the guys are all such jerks and losers. I just want to meet a nice guy…” Oh how they love to whine.

Well if you consider yourself to be the “nice guy” these women swear they’re looking for, but you strike-out with all but the very lowest end of the female food chain anyway, then you know what royal bull**** this declaration really is. Nonetheless — despite the fact that most of the feral women (18-35) actually date & screw the drunken lowlifes and pricks they claim to hate — they seem determined to drill it into our heads that this happens ONLY because the right “nice guy” hasn’t come-a-stumbln’ into their life yet. Rrrrr-ight.

Ok, here’s what’s REALLY going on. As usual, women are talking in code. (They are famous for this).

When women imagine “nice guys” in their minds, what they’re really dreaming about is a guy who makes them feel SAFE… but in a very *special* sort of way that preserves his male sexual attractiveness. Actually, this is not very mysterious when you think about it from the *female* perspective. To a woman, a safe guy means ONLY that you’re physically harmless — nothing more. In terms of what you could do to her emotions, well… that’s a different story.

This blend of hot n’ cold, exciting n’ boring, safe n’ dangerous is what she is REALLY searching for — this is what she *lives* for. It’s what she thinks of as having ‘chemistry’ with a guy.

The problem with being overtly nice or lap-doggishly friendly and accommodating with women is that it communicates the worse kind of SUBLIMINAL message to them. (P.S. Everything IMPORTANT that goes on between men and women in the early stages of all romantic-sexual encounters is always communicated NON-verbally. Words may be the power tools of seduction — but it’s what you DON’T actually say with words that will make or break you!). Anyway, this lousy subliminal messaging is the key to why nice guys rarely get laid. Here’s why:

‘Nice-guy’ behavior is NOT something that women see you as “switching on” in their presence like some well-meaning but fumbled attempt to impress them. Instead, they believe that you’ve been TRAINED (yes, like a f***ing dog) by other, *more powerful* men in your world to act this way!

In other words, ‘nice guy’ is how subservient men have learned to act in the presence of stronger men in order to protect themselves from harm (“I am no threat to your status as the more dominant male… please don’t hurt me… let me be your harmless, lovable side-kick…”). To women, then, “niceness” is a screaming red flashing signal of LOW MALE STATUS, and therefore…

…it is an ENORMOUS TURN OFF to them!

This is why they can’t develop any sexual energy (i.e., chemistry) with nice guys, and with good reason. Nature has hardwired the female brain to seek out the most powerful male to mate with in order to produce the strongest offspring with the best chance to survive. It’s the same reason why men have been hardwired to chase after women who display physical signs of youthfulness (because youthfulness = reproductive success, or viewed the other way around… old ladies = reproductive failure… i.e., no eggs left in the carton, to put it bluntly). While male and female ACTIONS may be completely different, their GOALS remain the same — strong healthy babies to carry forth the species. This is so because “maleness” and “femaleness” are really just two different but complimentary STRATEGIES for reproduction — and men and women are compelled to behave differently in order to executed these dissimilar strategies on one another.

You see, Nature doesn’t care about hurting people’s feelings — it cares ONLY about reproductive success in order to keep those precious DNA molecules traveling forward in Time. The dance of mating & seduction — in all creatures — is linked inseparably to this biological imperative. Go against it and you’re flying in the face of millions of years of evolution (or maybe its design, who knows?). Learn to play by it’s rules… and you will win!

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Anyway, being the correct sort of nice guy to women really only means being someone who is A) safe, and B) a guy that she would NOT be embarrassed to show off to her family or close (judgmental) friends. Understand that there’s a lot of latitude in there between a kiss-ass wimp and a complete psycho. Your job is to find that happy middle.

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Alright, some practical application of theory. It’s difficult to describe exactly how to go about handling the issue of being a nice guy, but here’s my best try…

You never want to ACT like a nice guy around women, but…

…you always want to SEEM like one.

Can you get a sense of what I’m trying to say here? The problem with being nice is TRYING to be nice, instead of just LETTING it happen. You can’t come across as an *obvious* a nice guy — you just have to drop enough hints around women so that you SEEM like one. Never, *EVER* broadcast your nice guy potential to women like it’s something that you’re proud of! Yeeesh!

Here’s a few examples of what I mean:

1) When you first meet a woman that you’re attracted to, you must establish a NON-verbal line of communication in a way that provokes stirrings of instinctual mating thoughts in her subconscious “deep” brain. In other words, you need to transmit your interest in her in a man-woman sexual-potential way *without* actually speaking any words to that effect! Nice trick, eh? Actually it’s easy… two ways in which you can do this are with extended eye contact and brief, non-offensive touches. Both casual, but unmistakable in their true meaning to her.

2) Drop HINTS about you’re capacity to be a nice guy, but don’t demonstrate it — otherwise you will come off like a complete kiss-ass. Do this by A) slipping in suggestions of having strong family-friends relationships in your life (a sign to women that you’re “connected & normal”), or B) that you have something exciting going on in your life — either at work, as a hobby, or perhaps a recent adventure of some kind.

Here’s an example from my own experiences. I used to work for a photography company. Sounds exciting, eh? Not really. The amount of time I spent with a camera in my hand was less than 5% of the total time I was there. I mostly did boring lab work and mechanical “McGuiver” tricks to keep a lot of old, over-used equipment up and running. But maybe a half dozen to 20 times a year, I got to fly around in light planes shooting aerial pictures around the Western New York area for various commercial clients.

So when I’m chatting up a girl, sometimes I’ll work in a quick little anecdote that’s drawn from one of my old flying jobs. Like how the snowpack collecting on Lake Erie forms such beautifully colored cracks in the greenish ice sheets during the height of mid-winter. But I make nothing more of it, all very nonchalant… and I DON’T fully explain how I came into the position of flying around the area and making such an observation in the first place. Is it through work? A hobby?… What am I involved in that would give me an opportunity to view this natural wonder? Business travel? What?

She’s at least a little bit curious about me now, but she’s not comfortable asking questions since I’ve just rolled over the subject quickly and she doesn’t really know me well enough yet. Besides, (and this is important to understand) she LIKES not knowing! Mystery! Intrigue! I’ve suggested to her in an off-hand way that I’m a productive guy (safe & normal) who’s into SOMETHING that’s kind of fascinating and possibly making me good money — but without revealing too much about what it is, and especially NOT explaining every last detail in the droll, somewhat braggartly way that is the hallmark of the boring-as- hell nice guy.

You can drop hints about family (“connections”, i.e. I’m not a lonely, desperate hermit) or whatever in a similar manner to show her that you’re an okay (nice?) guy without piercing the delicate bubble of MYSTERY that must envelope every seduction.

Now you’re “in like Flynn” in terms of getting your foot in the door to her heart (this is only Step 1 remember). Why? Because she’s made the determination in her *subconscious* mind (where it really counts) that you “seem” like a nice guy beneath an otherwise dominant male presentation of yourself, and that piques her interest immensely.

You are a rare encounter in the universe of men that breaks down into either sappy, boring “nice guys” or worthless (but, alas, exciting) pricks. Your stock has gone up at the moment it matters most… that make or break moment OF FIRST ENCOUNTER. No matter what “flaws” you might otherwise imagine yourself to have, you have become interesting to her in a way that AT LEAST she’ll never categorize as friggin’ “nice”. NOW you have a shot!

And you can move on to Seduction Steps 2, 3, 4, etc. with the confidence of a High Status Male!

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